I recently heard about this book from a colleague who thought it was a fantastic read, and then I stumbled upon an available copy of the audiobook only moments after talking to a patron about the [then] upcoming Diwali celebration… I figured it was a pretty good sign that this was a perfect time to check it out. (Happy belated Diwali, by the way!) I am *so* glad I that decided to go for it. Menon wrote a fantastic YA romantic comedy, PLUS she managed to do so while incorporating a lot of Indian culture and kept it from getting clunky or didactic. Not to mention the fact that the narrators were really great!
I think what I loved the most about this story was how authentic both Rishi and Dimple felt. I think it is likely that many American readers will find it easier to understand where Dimple was coming from — wanting to strike out on her own, follow her dreams, and choose her own career and life path instead of having her parents arrange a marriage to an Ideal Indian Husband. But I think there are surely some readers who will completely “get” Rishi, who is a hopeless romantic and believes that an arranged marriage is much more likely to lead to compatibility and lifelong happiness. At the very least, #WeNeedDiverseBooks so readers can be exposed to people from different cultures and better understand *why* people do things differently than they do. Since I have only known a few people whose marriages were arranged, it is still a largely foreign concept to me and I appreciated having another opportunity to learn more about this approach to love and marriage.
This book is about SO MUCH MORE than two families working toward uniting their children in an arranged marriage, though. One of the things I most appreciated was the way Menon depicted the struggle to stay true to one’s familial and cultural traditions while also forging one’s own path. I think many people can appreciate that, regardless of their ethnicity or religion, because it is such a universal struggle. While we might feel constrained by tradition, we also find comfort in what we’ve always known. And though readers may have different traditions and/or coming of age experiences than these characters, anyone with a working heart will surely feel #AllTheFeels when they read this story.
Some people seem to think that money can buy happiness, but I’d be willing to bet that Davis Pickett isn’t among them. Not only could money never replace Davis’ mother, but the existence of his father’s fortune actually complicated all of his relationships. His father was distant, always consumed with work, and Davis was never sure whether potential friends actually liked him or his money. Being rich, as it turns out, had made him very lonely. And then, to top it all off, his father disappeared the night before a police raid on his home related to a fraud and bribery investigation. All sorts of old “friends” came out of the woodwork in hopes that they could collect a reward for information leading to the capture of the fugitive billionaire. And though Aza technically ended up at Davis’ home as a result of her friend Daisy’s plan to try and capitalize on the reward, a spark of their earlier friendship remained and quickly rekindled.
The two had met years before at a summer camp Aza called Sad Camp, since they both had a parent who had died, but Aza was sure that Davis wouldn’t remember her. As it turned out, though, he remembered all sorts of details about her — like the fact that she suffered from anxiety-induced thought spirals, had a perpetual injury on the pad of her middle finger [because of a compulsion caused by her thought spirals], and loved Dr. Pepper. Perhaps that spark was more than just friendship?!?
I will never cease to be amazed by how well John Green captures the essence of being a young adult. He not only captures the unique blend of abstract thinking, idealism, and self-discovery that keep me coming back to YA, but he accurately depicts the mental health struggles, like depression and anxiety, many young adults face. “True terror isn’t being scared; it’s not having a choice in the matter.” His characters are relatable without being too cliche. If you have enjoyed John Green’s other books, you will likely enjoy this one too. And, if you have never read anything by John Green, what are you waiting for?!?
The concept of a “soul mate” has been around for practically forever, but something strange started happening a few years ago. No one knows why, but people started getting names on their chests. Not like a tattoo, per se, since they didn’t choose the name and/or do it themselves. Names just started appearing. Signatures, actually. Though no one knows why or how this started happening, many people honestly believe that the signature belongs to the person they are Meant To Be with (their MTB). People believe in this phenomenon so much, in fact, that there are even services to help you scan in your signature and your MTB’s signature so that you can find each other more quickly. And I guess that is great if you believe in the whole MTB thing, but what if you don’t?
Agatha isn’t so sure about the whole MTB thing. In fact, she prefers to use the term “Empties” (MTs) instead of MTBs. She was probably a little jaded by the fact that her high school boyfriend immediately dumped her and went in search of his MTB when a signature appeared on his chest, but it is more than that. She just doesn’t know how she feels about love and relationships in general. Is there really such a thing as fate and destiny? Could it possibly be that easy to find the person who is right for her? Sadly, her MTB has a very common name, so she doesn’t exactly have an easy time searching for him online to find out more of what he might be like. And then, to complicate things just a bit more, she starts to fall for a guy at work. This witty coming-of-age story is a great blend of humor, romance, and magical realism. Just an FYI, though — based on the mature content, some people might be more comfortable labeling this New Adult rather than YA.
“I regret to inform you that I have had to take my own life.” That was the beginning of the letter Cody received from her best friend, Meg — sent via email, with a time delay to ensure that her suicide had been completed before anyone could try to stop her. In that letter, Meg went on to apologize for the pain she knew she would cause the people who loved her but also to explain that she saw suicide as the only way to end her own pain. Something else she said in that letter, nevertheless, led Cody to question what actually led Meg to kill herself. She found it nearly impossible to believe that she had no idea her best friend would want to kill herself, and she set out to uncover the truth of whether this truly was a suicide or whether Meg had been somehow coerced.
I read this book a while ago, but actually forgot that I had read it when I was recently browsing through “available titles” on OverDrive… All I remembered was that I had loved Gayle Forman’s writing in If I Stay and Where She Went, so I checked it out. As I listened to it for a second time, though, I started to recall bits and pieces of the plot and felt compelled to keep listening in case there was anything else I had forgotten about the story. Then it hit me that this would be a perfect book to share when #SuicidePreventionAwarenessMonth and #BannedBooksWeek overlapped. Not only does this book inspire readers to think about and look for the possible warning signs of suicide, but it also helps to create a better sense of empathy for people who struggle with mental illness. Rather than calling people “cowards” or “selfish,” we need to recognize the sense of helplessness that mental illness creates. Hopefully, books like this will lead to a more open dialogue so that we can work to #EndTheStigma.
Sadie was more than prepared for a boring summer. Her best friend was going away to work at a summer camp and she was going to work at a farm stand selling fruits, veggies, and $12 chunks of cheese to “citiots” who were on their way from NYC to the Hamptons. Then, something completely random happened. When a drunk and belligerent man pulled in to the farm stand, Sadie became a bit of a hero. Rather than let him drive away with his toddler screaming and crying in the back seat, Sadie physically stopped him from leaving. It wasn’t all that simple, though. As she struggled to take away his keys, she actually had her head smashed off a toolbox and ended up with a major concussion and a terrible scar to show for her efforts. Video of her daring deed went viral and she was nominated for an award at a “homegrown heroes” luncheon that honored local teens.
Though they would have been unlikely to come together on their own, these teens felt an instant connection and decided to start hanging out as a group. Before long, they were working together to take down internet trolls while leaving care packages for the people who had been bullied. I don’t want to give away too much, but I think it’s fair to say that their good deeds soon escalated with the help of a generous benefactor. Though I was glad to see a book featuring brave and generous characters from a wide variety of backgrounds (both ethnic and socio-economic), I have concerns about the dangerous situations into which these teens placed themselves and can only hope that readers will know better than to emulate those particular acts of heroism.
Danielle had always planned on going to Ohio State. And, since her mom was renowned for her work as a “college psychic” (who helped families pick the perfect school), she didn’t bother applying to any back-up schools. Although no one was surprised to find out that she got accepted, she wasn’t sure what to do when she was notified that they rescinded her acceptance. How could that even happen? Well, Danielle failed AP English. So, she had to find a way to replace that failing grade if she wanted to earn back her acceptance. Plus, you know, find a way to tell everyone that she was no longer going away to Ohio State in the fall. Ack!
I was very pleased to see that Danielle took it upon herself to come up with a new plan and that her new plan involved redemption rather than admitting defeat. I was also happy to see that, though this is definitely a romance, Danielle didn’t intend to rush out and find herself a boyfriend… It just kind of happened when she least expected it. Readers who enjoy a coming of age story with light romance and family/friend drama should definitely check this one out.
Jackie Stone wasn’t the most popular girl, but her life wasn’t really terrible either… That is, until her father (Jared) was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Then, her life quickly spun out of control. With his family’s future financial security in mind, Jared made the decision to auction his life to the highest bidder on eBay. That is where we meet several of the other narrators — a billionaire who wants to win so that he and Jared can compete in their own “Hunger Games,” a nun who wants to win so that she can help people find God and see that the Catholic Church values all life, a producer who wants to sign Jared’s family up for a reality TV series, and an online gamer who simply feels compelled to try and win so that she can help this man die with dignity. I don’t think it is much of a spoiler to say that eBay took down the auction, since it clearly violates their human remains and body parts policy. And, based on the title, I don’t think it very “spoilery” to even acknowledge that Jared did, in fact, agree to contract with the American Television Network for a reality TV series. What I won’t spoil, nevertheless, is what happened *after* ATN stepped in. Suffice it to say that it was kinda crazy but also not completely outside the realm of possibility.
Between Jackie, Jared, Glio (the name the brain tumor gave itself), and the bidders from eBay, I initially found it a little difficult to follow the myriad of perspectives. I am glad that I kept going, nevertheless, because this story was filled with such great food for thought. Individual rights and privacy of minors in reality TV series and euthanasia were merely the tip of the iceberg! Despite the morbid premise, the story managed to be much more quirky than depressing and I am fairly certain I laughed more often than I was sad. If you enjoyed Reality Boy, you should definitely read this book as well.